In China nowadays, most families have only one child, who gets more and more attention and love from their parents. Parent always try their best to meet the needs of the child because most of the time they are too busy with their work to stay with the only child. Then more and more parents tend to say "yes" to most of their children's demand as a method to make up for the lack of care. However, it's not a blessing to always say "yes" to children. 如今在中国，因为很多家庭只有一个孩子，所以孩子受到父母更多的关心和爱护。

父母会想方设法满足孩子的需要，因为大多时间他们都忙于工作，很少有时间陪孩子。所以父母会对孩子的大部分要求都点头同意，来弥补缺失的关心。

然而事事都依着孩子，并不是对其真正的关怀。 Indulgence from parents is very likely to throw bad influence on their children. For one thing, the only child of a family has difficulty distinguishing right and wrong. They used to get "yes" from others. Therefore, once they are refused, they will feel angry because in their mind, nobody can say "no" to them. Now, there are many bad events that youngsters hurt or kill others just because they are refused.For another thing, children will form the habit of getting something for nothing. They take everything they get for granted with no gratitude. They have formed the view that their parents have the duty to buy everything for them.Finally, most of the only children are selfish. Being the only child in the family, they needn't share anything with other, so usually they don't realize the importance of share. 父母的溺爱很有可能对孩子造成不良影响。

一方面，独生小孩子缺乏对错的判断力。他们习惯从父母那得到顺从。

所以一旦他们遭到拒绝会很生气，因为在他们印象中，没人对他们说不。如今有很多年轻人伤害或杀人的恶性事件发生，就是因为他们遭到拒绝。

另一方面，孩子会养成不劳而获的习惯。他们视自己所得为理所当然，没有一丝感激。

他们形成父母有义务为他们买任何东西的观念。另外，独生子一般很自私，家里的独子没必要与别人分享什么，所以他们没意识到分享的重要性。

In short, parent are supposed to take some effective measures to prevent the negative influences of overindulgence on their children, and parents should bear in mind that it's no good to the children's growth if they always say "yes" to them. 总之，父母应该采取有效措施，抑制过度溺爱对孩子的负面影响，父母也应该意识到一味顺从孩子，对他们的成长没有好处。

2. 英语表达拒绝的经典好句

1)I hate you！ 我讨厌你！

2)You make me sick！ 你真让我恶心！

3)What's wrong with you？ 你怎么回事？

4)You shouldn't have done that！ 你真不应该那样做！

5)You're a jerk！ 你是个废物/混球！

6)Don't talk to me like that！ 别那样和我说话！

7)Who do you think you are？ 你以为你是谁？

8)What's your problem？ 你怎么回事啊？

9)Stop complaining！ 别发牢骚！

10)I don't want to see your face！我不愿再见到你！

11)You're crazy！ 你疯了！

12)How dare you！ 你敢！

13)Don't bother me. 别烦我。

14)Knock it off. 少来这一套。

15)Get out of my face. 从我面前消失！

16)Leave me alone. 走开。

17)Get lost.滚开！

18)Take a hike！ 哪儿凉快哪儿歇着去吧。

19)You piss me off. 你气死我了。

20)It's none of your business. 关你屁事！

21)What's the meaning of this？ 这是什么意思？

22.)I can't take it anymore. 我受不了了！

23)Cut it out. 省省吧。

24)You stupid jerk！ 你这蠢猪！

25)You have a lot of nerve. 脸皮真厚。

26)I'm fed up. 我厌倦了。

27)Are you insane/crazy/out of your mind？ 你疯了吗？（美国人绝对常用！）

3. 英语有哪些句型基本结构

英语五种基本句型列式如下： 基本句型一： S V （主+谓） 基本句型二： S V P （主+谓+表） 基本句型三： S V O （主+谓+宾） 基本句型四： S V o O （主+谓+间宾+直宾） 基本句型五： S V O C （主+谓+宾+宾补） 基本句型 一 此句型的句子有一个共同特点，即句子的谓语动词都能表达完整的意思. 这类动词叫做不及物动词，后面可以跟副词、介词短语、状语从句等. ┏━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┓ ┃ S │ V （不及物动词） ┃ ┠———————————————┼———————————————┨ ┃1. The sun │was shining. ┃ ┃2. The moon │rose. ┃ ┃3. The universe │remains. ┃ ┃4. We all │breathe, eat, and drink. ┃ ┃5. Who │cares？ ┃ ┃6. What he said │does not matter. ┃ ┃7. They │talked for half an hour. ┃ ┃8. The pen │writes smoothly ┃ 1. 太阳在照耀着. 2. 月亮升起了. 3. 宇宙长存. 4. 我们大家都呼吸、吃和喝. 5. 管它呢？ 6. 他所讲的没有什么关系. 7. 他们谈了半个小时. 8. 这支笔书写流利. 基本句型 二 此句型的句子有一个共同的特点：句子谓语动词都不能表达一个完整的意思，必须加上一个表明主语身份或状态的表语构成复合谓语，才能表达完整的意思.这类动词叫做连系动词.系动词分两类：be, look, keep, seem等属一类，表示情况；get, grow, become, turn等属另一类，表示变化.be 本身没有什么意义，只起连系主语和表语的作用.其它系动词仍保持其部分词义. ┏━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┓ ┃ S │V（是系动词）│ P ┃ ┠———————┼———————┼———————————————┨ ┃1. This │is │an English-Chinese dictionary.┃ ┃2. The dinner │smells │good. ┃ ┃3. He │fell │in love. ┃ ┃4. Everything │looks │different. ┃ ┃5. He │is growing │tall and strong. ┃ ┃6. The trouble│is │that they are short of money. ┃ ┃7. Our well │has gone │dry. ┃ ┃8. His face │turned │red. ┃ ┗━━━━━━━┷━━━━━━━┷━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┛ 1. 这是本英汉辞典. 2. 午餐的气味很好. 3. 他堕入了情网. 4. 一切看来都不同了. 5. 他长得又高又壮. 6. 麻烦的是他们缺少钱. 7. 我们的井干枯了. 8. 他的脸红了. 基本句型 三 此句型句子的共同特点是：谓语动词都具有实义，都是主语产生的动作，但不能表达完整的意思，必须跟有一个宾语，即动作的承受者，才能使意思完整.这类动词叫做及物动词. ┏━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━┓ ┃ S │V（及物动词）│ O ┃ ┠———————┼———————┼———————————————┨ ┃1. Who │knows │the answer？ ┃ ┃2. She │smiled │her thanks. ┃ ┃3. He │has refused │to help them. ┃ ┃4. He │enjoys │reading. ┃ ┃5. They │ate │what was left over. ┃ ┃6. He │said │"Good morning." ┃ ┃7. I │want │to have a cup of tea. ┃ ┃8. He │admits │that he was mistaken. ┃ ┗━━━━━━━┷━━━━━━━┷━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 1. 谁知道答案？ 2. 她微笑表示感谢. 3. 他拒绝帮他们的忙. 4. 他喜欢看书. 5. 他们吃了剩饭. 6. 他说：“早上好！” 7. 我想喝杯茶. 8. 他承认犯了错误. 基本句型 四 此句型的句子有一个共同特点：谓语动词必须跟有两个宾语才能表达完整的意思.这两个宾语一个是动作的直接承受者，另一个是动作的间接承受者. 通常这一间接承受者用一个介词来连接，当动作的间接承受者在动作的直接承受者之前时，这一介词往往被省略. ┏━━━━┯━━━━━┯━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━━━━━━┓ ┃ S │V（及物）│ o（多指人） │ O（多指物） ┃ ┠————┼—————┼———————┼————————————┨ ┃1. She │ordered │herself │a new dress. ┃ ┃2. She │cooked │her husband │a delicious meal. ┃ ┃3. He │brought │you │a dictionary. ┃ ┃4. He │denies │her │nothing. ┃ ┃5. I │showed │him │my pictures. ┃ ┃6. I │gave │my car │a wash. ┃ ┃7. I │told │him │that the bus was late. ┃ ┃8. He │showed │me │how to run the machine. ┃ ┗━━━━┷━━━━━┷━━━━━━━┷━━━━━━━━━━━━┛ 1. 她给自己定了一套新衣裳. 2. 她给丈夫煮了一餐美馔. 3. 他给你带来了一本字典. 4. 他对她什么都不拒绝. 5. 我给他看我的照片. 6. 我洗了我的汽车. 7. 我告诉他汽车晚点了. 8. 他教我开机器. 基本句型 五 此句型的句子的共同特点是：动词虽然是及物动词，但是只跟一个宾语还 不能表达完整的意思，必须加上一个补充成分来补足宾语，才能使意思完整. ┏━━━━┯━━━━━┯━━━━━━━┯━━━━━━━━━━━━┓ ┃ S │V（及物）│ O（宾语） │ C（宾补） ┃ ┠————┼—————┼———————┼————————————┨ ┃1. They │appointed │him │manager. ┃ ┃2. They │painted │the door │green. ┃ ┃3. This │set │them │。

4. 写一篇简短的英语拒绝邀请信

dear john: i would like to extend to you an invitation to be our guest of the gragon boat racing to be held at the [city name] at december the thirtieth, 2009. as you know, the gragon boat festival is a importand traditional festival of china, which is set to rememver quyuan. since you are familiar with the chinese cultrure, we suppose that you may receive more information from it. you will receive further details later, but we would appreciate having your acceptance soon so we may complete our agenda. cordially,。

5. 写一篇简短的英语拒绝邀请信

Mr.M

I'm terribly sorry that I cannot able to attend your party held on christmas day,because on that day i have to work overtime and so many affairs to deal with,and i don't know what time i can leave the company,i'm so regreted to join you,i hope you can have a great time on that day.Merry Christmas!

sincerely yours

(your name)

6. 用英语怎么委婉的拒绝一个人的邀请

我觉得不合适，你坦白跟他说还好一点，另外，即使英语不好，也不要推辞约会，不好就要煅炼呀！

或放这样跟他说会比较好点

I am very pleasure to receive your invitation, but my english is not so good, I am afraid there will be some difficulties when we communicate with each other, do you mind of it?